{"id":1000,"date":"2016-05-05T19:34:11","date_gmt":"2016-05-06T02:34:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/?p=1000"},"modified":"2016-05-05T19:34:11","modified_gmt":"2016-05-06T02:34:11","slug":"a-discouraging-year-so-far","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/?p=1000","title":{"rendered":"A Discouraging Year So Far"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/050616_0234_ADiscouragi1.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/>On this beautiful Cinco de Mayo, the second anniversary of my nephew Tyler William Reed&#8217;s death, my thoughts wandered to family deaths in general. I realized that in the first four months of this year, we already have had four deaths in my extended family. Not a good start.\n<\/p>\n<p>In 2016 we have lost the following loved ones:\n<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Ronald Duane Bentsen, my uncle, passed away January 15, the day after his 85<sup>th<\/sup> birthday.\n<\/li>\n<li>Angela Nicolucci, my second cousin, died February 5 at the age of 43.\n<\/li>\n<li>Sharon Flageolle, with whom we share a granddaughter, lost her cancer battle on March 22 at the age of 53.\n<\/li>\n<li>Judith Ann Tegg, my mom&#8217;s cousin, died on April 9 at the age of 73.\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Four months, four deaths. Usually they do not come so quickly, one after the other like this. Each month, I have had the unpleasant job of collecting obituaries and photos for these people and entering the information into the family history that I keep. Now their names appear on the family tree with birth and death dates in neat brackets.\n<\/p>\n<p>The reminders of these sad deaths remain raw, but I feel the need to memorialize these family members while memories of them remain fresh, too. I want them to be remembered. So I continue to work on the tree, adding death dates no matter how unwelcome the news. We just have had so many in such a short time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On this beautiful Cinco de Mayo, the second anniversary of my nephew Tyler William Reed&#8217;s death, my thoughts wandered to family deaths in general. I realized that in the first four months of this year, we already have had four deaths in my extended family. Not a good start. In 2016 we have lost the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genealogy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1000"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1000\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1001,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1000\/revisions\/1001"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogyjottings.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}